Nope. You can have kids with them, date them, be friends with them, associate with them; but do we really truly know who the fuck we are dealing with? Nope. And that's scary. But it is also true. It's life. But don't be afraid to call it out. When it doesn't feel right, don't let it be alright. Have the courage to call out the bullshit. Even if it leaves you solo. Alone. Because you need to trust in the fact that your courage will be riding shotgun. It will be your companion,

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