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Courteous, Compassionate, Cordial.

Sometimes we need a little more caring in our communication; in our process of how we handle people and our interactions with them.


So please try and make it happy energy.


We are all allowed a bit of piss and vinegar, but please mix it with a bigger dose of honey.


Every once and again we need to be reminded that we are as capable to appeal to people as much as we are able to make them feel assaulted.


So choose wisely.


Try and elect the sweet approach to anyone you may meet.


You WILL catch more bees with honey than vinegar.


Gentle reminder; it's not always painless to be the better person.


And sometimes we may even get stung in the process of trying to take the high road.


But that's life.


The high road is high; because it is hard to get to.


You need to climb up there, and that is rigorous work.


Carryout your contacts and persona with a sense of sass, but also with a healthy sense of self.


One that is humble.


Please and thank you will NEVER go out of style, so use it frequently, it's amazing what a difference that alone makes.


Proceed forward in this life with the idea that humanity is fragile, and also that humor is essential.


So be nice.


Try and never assume things about people.


People are allowed to have bad days (as are you), but try not to let their attitudes interfere with your actions or articulation.


Be as gentle with others as you should be with yourself.


Put that gavel away.


And it may be hard, but it will be worth it.


You never know what is happening to someone to account for their poor behavior.


You can't know what is going on behind closed doors unless you are allowed in.


And in order to do that, you need to be amiable.


Be mindful that we are all in this together , so tread carefully, wisely, and be curated in your dealings with people.


Or at least as much as you can be.


Easier said than done.


I know that, fully well.


Wink wink.


In the meantime, practice grace and hospitality with others, because as we all know, no one gets out of this alive, and the impressions you imprint on others will long outlast the years we have on Earth, as the tales of our persona are shared for a much much longer time than our years spent here.


So leave those whom you come into contact with, stories that will leave them smiling and better yet, laughing.


Allow your demeanor and interactions to be a ray of sunshine in someone else's life.


Especially on a yucky rainy day like today.


Here's to Humanity!


Xoxo,

C.













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