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Asking.

cynthiafoustvenner
Feb 13
1 min read

Updated: Feb 19

If you have to ask for something, it loses its value.


If you have to beg for something?


Even worse.


If that is the case, then you don't need it, or at least not from the person you are begging from for it.


If you have to argue with someone to get something you feel you need?


Not worth it.


Go for that walk, a long one.


Not worth it with them, I should clarify.


The right people, will deliver the right things, at the right times.


On their own accord, because they care about you.


One should never have to ask for love, loyalty or leisure.


Those things, with the right person will arrive without question.


On time, fully dressed, and with a smile; I can never pass up on a good Annie reference.


That said, Happy Valentine's Day, and may you spend it with a person who doesn't need to be asked what you would like, but shows up; with everything you never knew you needed, and does it happily, thinking and believing that you are the real gift to their heart.


May you be with someone tomorrow that does not find that loving is a chore but something to cherish, and that is because of you.


For me?


Better luck next year, but hope springs eternal.


HBDT, 143143143.


Life is too short to spend it with someone who is not absolutely crazy about you.


Don't be afraid to know what you deserve, better yet?


Don't be afraid to wait for it.


Kissy kissy kissy.


Xoxo,

C.

 
 
 

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